Breaking up is never an easy thing to do. Nobody likes having to hurt someone else by calling it quits on their relationship. One way of hurting someone worse, is breaking up the wrong way.
When it comes to breaking up a relationship, there are ways to go about it that will help your cause rather than making you look even worse. You can do it in a way where you keep your self-respect, keep your dignity, and salvage your significant other's dignity too. Breaking up should be done in person, if at all possible. You should not send the person an email, or do it by phone, if you can help it. It says so much more if you can meet the person for dinner, a drink, or just a walk in the park.
Tell them how much the relationship meant to you and find positives about the person you are calling it quits with. Let them know that they did mean something to you. Be tactful in your words. Do not go into a lot of negatives about the person that will make them feel horrible about them self. Let them know how much your relationship meant to you while you were in it
Breaking up, especially if it was a meaningful relationship, should be done from the heart, just like telling the person you loved them. They deserve the right to say their piece, ask questions, and be able to see your face just as you do theirs.
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